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Thu 5th Feb |
12pm |
Community Lunch |
Main course and dessert = £6.00 |
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Fri 6th Feb |
7:30pm |
Board games evening |
Light refreshments provided |
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Wed 18th Feb |
7:30pm |
Churches Together in Bitterne |
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Sun 1st March |
2pm |
Christian Musicals Sing-Along |
February
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
Dear Friends, During the last few months we’ve prayed for many of our friends who have been unwell in body, mind, or spirit, and all who are experiencing difficult times. We continue to uphold them in our thoughts and prayers and think especially of the family and friends of one of our congregation members as they mourn their loss. We give thanks for their many years of service. Dear Lord, we ask that you surround all those in need with your healing presence. Bring comfort where there is pain, clarity where there is confusion, and calm where there is anxiety. May they feel supported, upheld, and never alone. Amen. In Christian love, Anne
BOARD GAMES EVENING – Come along for a fun evening on Friday 6 February 2026 at 7.30 pm. Light refreshments provided.
AWAY DAY! – 2 MAY 2026, PETERSFIELD URC Dear Friends, We’d love you to consider joining us on an away day. The date is a few months away, which gives you time to consider, plan and sign up. Feel free to suggest a theme for the day and let us know beforehand. This is a time for everyone to have fun and fellowship in a relaxed environment. We are hoping to provide transport.
FUTURE EVENTS ACROSS THE SOUTHERN FELLOWSHIP
ABBEY URC – Sunday 15 February 2026 at 10.30 am, A Celebration of Love – led by the Reverend Terry Hinks. Abbey URC is open every Saturday morning for a quiet time of prayer and meditation.
BITTERNE PARK URC – Saturday 21 February, Coffee Morning
Saturday 28 March,11.00 am – 2.00 pm Easter Market, including refreshments, lunch. Friday 8 May, 6.30 pm Beetle Drive, including Bangers and mash.
Ideas for Keeping Lent Holy Part 1 by Nadia Bolz-Weber & adapted for the UK by Rev Sarah Hall. Did you do this last year? How did you do?
From Wednesday February 18th
Day 1: Pray for your enemies
Day 2: Walk, carpool, bike or bus it.
Day 3: Don’t turn on the radio
Day 4: Give £5 to a charity of your choosing
Day 5: Take 5 minutes of silence at noon
Day 6: Look out the window until you find something of beauty you had not noticed before.
Day 7: Give 3 items of clothing, books, DVDs or CDs to charity
Day 8: No gossip day
Day 9: Do someone else’s chore
Day 10: Buy a few fast food gift cards to give to homeless people you encounter
Day 11: Call an old friend
Day 12: Pray the paper (pray for people and situations in today’s news)
Day 13: Read Psalm 139
Day 14: Pay a few sincere compliments
Day 15: Bring your own mug to a coffee shop
Day 16: Educate yourself about human trafficking https://urc.org.uk/modern-slavery/
Day 17: Forgive someone
Day 18: Don’t use the Internet except for necessities
Day 19: Change one light in your house to LED
Day 20: Try out YouTube morning prayer with the Iona Community
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwDTTUFoQ5YQRfA5bUi8ObQ
Day 21: Ask for help
Day 22: Tell someone what you are grateful for
Day 23: Introduce yourself to a neighbour
Day 24: Read Psalm 121
Day 25: Bake a cake
Day 26: No shopping day
Day 27: Hug a tree
Day 28: Light a candle
To be continued next issue….
LENT SERVICES ON ZOOM
Dear Friends, The Reverend Mike Perrott will be preparing a Zoom Lent Bible Study for 6.30 pm on the Sunday evenings of Lent, including Palm Sunday which anyone from the Fellowship is welcome to join. Just to confirm the dates:
Lent 1, 22 February Lent 2, 1 March Lent 3, 8 March Lent 4, 15 March Lent 5, 22 March Lent 6, 29 March (Palm Sunday)
Anyone who is interested can email Mike [email protected] the week before each session and he will send notes including the Passcode and ID. God Bless.
New funding for church repairs and VAT changes
The Listed Places of Worship Grants Scheme has been a lifeline for historic churches – saving them 20 per cent on repair costs. But the future of the scheme is uncertain – and churches, chapels, meeting houses and cathedrals across the country will be paying up to a fifth more for repairs, like leaking roofs and crumbling towers. Some of them cannot afford to do these repairs anymore, putting heritage and church buildings across the country at risk of disrepair and closure.
On the 22 January 2026, the UK Government confirmed the Listed Places of Worship Grant Scheme will end in March 2026. It will be replaced by a £230 million package to protect and preserve heritage buildings, including listed places of worship. The UK Government has also decided that a spending cap/limit of £25,000 will now apply for each grant, and that the overall budget of the scheme has been reduced by almost half.
The scheme offers tremendous value for money. For every £1 invested in a church building, £16 of social good is generated, for example food banks, warm spaces, clubs etc. The Trust strongly believes that the Grants scheme should be retained and made permanent – it’s vital to help these buildings stay open, serving local people, and it’s the poorest and most isolated who will suffer most if these buildings are forced to close. Churches depend overwhelmingly on volunteers so the new proposed scheme will need to be simple, accessible and predictable if it is to be a success. A major concern is that in future listed places of worship will have to bear the full cost of VAT on repairs. This brings to an end a system that has operated successfully for over 20 years. It means that in future local people will have to raise money not just to repair churches but to pay a 20% tax to the Government.”
The Trust says “Museums and galleries offering free admission do not have to pay VAT on repairs, but in future churches will. We call on the Government to end this unfairness and not to expect local volunteers to pay these extra taxes.”
The Department of Culture, Media and Sport have now been given their budget for the next few years. It is now up to them to decide if they will fund the scheme. Please write to your MP to request that the Listed Places of Worship Scheme is made permanent – a template and more information can be found at https://www.nationalchurchestrust.org/impact/campaigns/save-listed-places-worship-grants-scheme as a final decision is expected very soon.
Over 13000 churches have benefitted from the scheme and have been supported in keeping their buildings windproof and watertight, safeguarding the future of some of our most important local heritage. We have 2 listed churches near us, Holy Saviour and Church of the Ascension in Bitterne Park. The scheme changes will also greatly affect old churches in small towns and villages.
Unbelievably, there remains no VAT chargeable if a listed church is demolished.
Maria.
CHRISTINGLE MAKERS
Thank you to all our amazing Christingle makers and our orange gatherers, it is a very beautiful tradition, we have a lot of fun and a gorgeous catch up. See you next year and any newcomers always welcome. Much love and thanks, with God’s blessings, Liz
A message from Southampton City Mission
Southampton City Mision is partnering with One Body Southampton, the Message Trust & local churches to host God’s Story in Southampton, a one-day conference on Saturday 21st March at Highfield Church. This is a chance to hear powerful stories of faith, transformation, and hope across our city — and discover how you can join in with what God is doing.
The day runs 9:30am – 3:30pm, with inspiring talks, worship, and time to connect across churches and ministries. We’re thrilled to welcome Sam Ward, Director of Ministry at The Message Trust, as our keynote speaker, with Theo Amer from New Community Church, Southampton, sharing stories from across the city.
There’s something for everyone:
- Children (5–10 yrs) — ‘Discovering that we are sent’ led by SCM Schools, Ellie, Joyce & Reuben
- Youth (11–17 yrs) — ‘Chosen, Restored, Sent’ led by YTH Church & Youth Fest, plus free breakfast!
Tickets: £14 adults — Early Bird £10 until midnight, 31st January 2026.
Children attend free; registration required for all under-18s.
Book your place at https://q.me-qr.com/QBGiy7Mq
SOUTHERN FELLOWSHIP ANNIVERSARY SERVICE
Saturday 9 May 2026 at 2.00 pm at Braishfield United Reformed Church. Service to be led by the Reverend Mike Perrott.
The United Reformed Church would like to share this fantastic opportunity for young people this summer – Limitless festival 2026!
Earlier in the year
> Dec 2025/Jan 2026
December
Details about our upcoming Christmas services and events!
Christmas Tree Festival
✨ Step into a winter wonderland at Bitterne URC! From 6th December, our sanctuary will be transformed into a sparkling forest of Christmas trees, each lovingly decorated by local groups, organisations, and friends from our community.
Every Wednesday and Saturday at 10am, alongside our welcoming Community Café & Coffee Morning, you’re invited to wander among the twinkling trees, soak up the festive atmosphere, and celebrate the creativity and warmth of our neighbourhood.
It’s more than a festival—it’s a gathering of light, joy, and togetherness, where every tree tells a story and every visitor becomes part of the magic. 🌟
The Bitterne Sheep trail has started and the winners will be announced at the Christmas Tree Festival on 20th December. Forms are available in our church, Holy Saviour and Bitterne Library, if you have any grandchildren who would like to take part.
JIGSAW PUZZLE FESTIVAL 2025
A HUGE THANK YOU to ALL who were involved with our festival this year. We couldn’t have done it without YOU!
A few facts; 355 People visited
180 slices of cake were served
750+ jigsaws sold
£3760 raised for the work of the church
Bitterne URC 40th Anniversary celebrations
2026 sees the 40th anniversary of our moving into our present premises and we are planning a series of special events to celebrate. Watch out for details in the coming weeks and put the dates on your calendars!
Zoom Advent Bible Study Rev Mike Perrott is holding a weekly Advent bible study on Sunday 7th, 14, and 21st December at 6.30pm. All are welcome to attend. Please email for joining details and study notes to [email protected]. There is also a study on 4th January.
CAROL SINGING Do join our friends from the other Bitterne Churches as Churches Together in Bitterne host carol singing round the Christmas Tree in the precinct at 1.00pm on Wednesday 17th December.
The New Music Makers Family Christmas Concerts To be held on Saturday 13th December 7.30pm (the matinee performance has sold out!) At Hedge End Village Hall, SO30 0BP
Book online https://www.ticketsource.co.uk/new-music-makers Or ring 01489 781836
Prices: adults £10.00, children £6 and under 5’s free
Lyndhurst Baptist Church is holding their Christmas Experience on Tuesday 2nd of December from 6pm – 8pm. Please look at their website for a video to see how wonderful it is. The whole church is converted into the Christmas story. Entrance is free, with refreshments.
The Girls and Boys Brigades are having a special Christmas carol service at 7pm on Monday 8th December. All are welcome.
Scratch Christmas Complete Appeal
We have already received a generous number of toys and books for this appeal. Thank you so much; you will be making so many children’s Christmases’ so much happier. The last day for this appeal is Sunday 7th December.
Community Carolling dates in December with the Salvation Army Band, times are all from 7pm to 8.30pm
Monday 8th – Douglas Crescent
Wednesday 10th – Vokes Close, Franklyn Ave, Cunningham Cres
Friday 12th – Brownlow Avenue, Monday 15th St Aubins.
Their Santa’s Grotto and Tree Festival is Saturdays 6th, 13th and 20th December, 10am to 1pm, 93 North East Road, SO19 8AF.
Bitterne URC Ladies Group
This is a very new group that we have set up at the church for any ladies over the age of 18. There is no upper age limit. We have only had a few meetings which have been fun. We have tried hand bell ringing and made Christmas tree decorations for the Christmas Tree Festival. In the New Year we are having a session singing for wellbeing in January 2026 and a speaker for February.
We meet on Saturday mornings, dates are announced in the church magazine. If you wish to know more about the group, contact us
Delicious Sounds Choir with the Bees Knees Duo – Winter Concert – Sunday 7th December, 2.30pm at Peartree Church. Adults £10 and children free. Includes mince pie and mulled wine.
Its ADVENT! If you receive the URC newsletter by email, you will have a link to Eco Congregation Scotland and their online Eco Advent calendar. There is a short video for each day of Advent, giving you a Christian and green message, or see https://www.ecocongregationscotland.org/advent-2025/
> November 2025 News
> October 2025 News
That’s a Wrap on the 2025 Jigsaw Festival!
Thank you to everyone who joined us for a week of puzzling joy, laughter, and connection. Whether you popped in for a browse or stayed to sort and chat, your presence made this festival truly special. Click here to see more moments from the Jigsaw Puzzle Festival that brought our community together.
Outreach Community Worker
After a superb presentation at interview and Church Meeting it was wonderful to see hands raised so eagerly, accompanied with lots of smiles, agreeing to the appointment of Nikki Fisher as our Outreach Community Worker. We look forward to supporting Nikki in her work and give thanks to God for blessing us in this way and guiding Nikki along this pathway.
Bitterne Precinct Christmas light “switch on ”: This will take place on Saturday 15th November, with input from Churches Together in Bitterne and the launch of the Big Bitterne Sheep Trail, baaa baaa! Please put the date in your diary; times and more information to follow in the next issue.
Anti-social Behaviour: Please be aware that the Church has been advised, by Darren Paffey MP, to report all acts of anti-social behaviour to 101. If people are trespassing and leave on request it still needs to be reported. If these instances are not reported the Police are not aware we are having problems. With thanks to all of you who are having to deal with this.
Fairtrade Fortnight 2025 – 22 September – 5 October 2025Brew it Fair is this year’s theme! Information about tea from the Fairtrade website….Check it out for more info!
- The tea sector generally provides insufficient income to farmers and workers and wages often fall far below living wage estimates.
- Globally, tea production employs around 13 million people.
- Nearly 50% of tea is produced in China, followed by India, Kenya, Sri Lanka and Turkey. Tea is also a significant industry in countries such as Uganda, Malawi, Indonesia and Bangladesh.
- In many countries, more than half of all tea workers are women. In their labour-intensive, low-paid jobs, they often face gender-based violence and discrimination, and exclusion from decision-making and union representation
- Tea plantation workers in India, Kenya and Sri Lanka are often migrants or the descendants of immigrants. They face discrimination in many forms, including gender-based, as well as ethnic violence.
- Tea cultivation is labour-intensive. Picking is done by hand and involves carrying heavy loads over long distances. The lack of protective gear exposes workers to health risks from agrochemicals.
- Global tea production faces growing threats from climate change as our weather patterns become increasingly erratic and unpredictable. Key challenges include warmer temperatures and droughts, reduced rainfall and the spread of tea-related pests and diseases.
Christmas Shoeboxes and Christmas Gifts.
At the July church meeting we agreed to continue to support the annual shoebox appeals. As per last year, we are sending children’s boxes to the Rotary club. They have again supplied us with boxes, so there is no need to source and wrap a shoebox. You will find them already assembled in the church foyer. Each box needs a donation of £2 to cover transport costs. As before, we are also doing old person and family boxes for Link to Hope. Knitted teddies, gloves, hats and squares to make blankets would all be appreciated. Lists of items for all boxes are available at church. Please return the Rotary boxes by or on 12th October and the Link to Hope on or by 2nd November. Thank you.
Christmas Complete – Scratch Toy Appeal
We have again agreed to support the SCRATCH charity annual Toy Appeal called Christmas Complete. Referral agencies provide them with details of children who would otherwise receive little or nothing for Christmas. Scratch are asking for
- Toys, games and puzzles for babies, children and young people up to 17 years old,
- Craft sets, colouring books and colouring pens/pencils, stationary, books, sweets,
- Cardboard boxes, carrier bags, sellotape and Christmas wrapping paper.
New items are preferred but they can accept excellent quality second hand games, puzzles, books and soft toys.
SCRATCH also accept donations of money and have an Amazon wish list if you prefer to buy a gift direct.
Last year they supplied 2563 gifts to children and young people. With the cost-of-living crisis, these gifts are even more important. A box for donations will be in the church foyer shortly. Thank you again for your support.
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
Let us pray and think of all those who are facing struggles with ill health, bereavement, or challenging life events at this time. May they feel God’s presence beside them, bringing healing, comfort, and strength through every difficulty. We also remember with joy those celebrating birthdays and weddings during the coming month—may God’s blessings be with them, filling their celebrations with happiness, love, and peace. Amen.
> September 2025 News
Harvest Thanksgiving Sun 28th Jill Abrahams
Harvest this year will be on the topic of Homelessness. Please bring gifts of food and clothing suitable for people who are homeless. There will be a harvest lunch after the service so if you would like to come, please put your name on the list. There is no set charge for the lunch but we are asking for donations to cover the cost and hopefully to support Street Angels’ work with the homeless in Southampton.
A big thank you from Jill and Ian
To everyone who supported the Four Charities Tea in August. £680 was raised which was shared between the charities: Countess Mountbatten, Street Angels, Simon Says and Dementia UK.
OUR CHURCH FAMILY
Dear Friends
We remember all those within our Church family and wider community who need our prayers at this time.
We pray for all those struggling with mental and physical illnesses and ask they know they are surrounded with loving care and we give thanks for all those who offer healing and hope.
We pray for all those who are starting a new academic year or experiencing their first days of employment. Bless them with resilience in the face of their challenges. May they discover new strengths within themselves and may every step forward be met with encouragement and understanding.
May comfort, hope and healing be with all who are in need, now and always. Amen.
Important – this may save your life!
I found this in a free newspaper called the Camden New Journal. I had no idea that sepsis was so dangerous, deadly, and common. The author, Johnathon Simpson, MBE, had a fever and chills, was rushed to hospital and spent 2 months fighting for his life. He lost the use of his right foot within 48 hours of falling ill, and came really close to death. He was diagnosed with sepsis, which is the body’s extreme reaction to an infection. It is a medical emergency which causes the immune system to attack its own organs. It can overwhelm the body in a matter of hours, so you need to act fast.
According to the UK Sepsis Trust, 245,000 people in the UK are affected each year and at least 48,000 of them die. That is more than the number of people who die from breast, bowel and prostate cancer combined. Despite these numbers, many people do not know how to spot the signs.
Here’s the acronym:-
S – Slurred speech or confusion
E – extreme shivering or muscle pain
P – passing no urine (in a day)
I – it feels like you are going to die
S – skin is mottled or discoloured.
If you or someone you know experiences any of these symptoms, especially after an infection, surgery or even a small injury, go to A&E or call 999. Do not delay. Sepsis is fast, frightening and too often, fatal if you’re not aware of it. The author is still recovering and using crutches, and is keen to spread the word.
Maria.
Notices
OUR BRIGADES Just a reminder that the Boys and Girls Brigades start back in September. If you know of any children aged 5 and older who would like to join, please pass on our details
New Groups!
Women’s Group
The first meeting will be on Saturday 20th September 2025 at 11.30am, which will be after community café. It will take place in the Willow room, no need to book, but any questions please contact Philippa.
Bible Study House Group will be meeting on the 1st Wednesday monthly, starting on Wednesday 3rd September.
Green Open Homes Event 13 -21 September. Are you curious about heat pumps or solar panels, about growing vegetables, or saving power? These are some of the issues which you can explore by visiting homes in Southampton from 13-21st September. Go to greenopenhomes.org to see what each home is offering and book a visit. Co-organiser Angela Cotton said, “There will be no salespeople, just people living in ordinary Southampton homes willing to share what they’ve done and how well it worked.”
CHRISTMAS SHOEBOXES
It was agreed at a recent church meeting that we would again support Link to Hope for the family and elderly shoeboxes and the Rotary Club for the children’s boxes. I will be putting the information and resources (including pre-printed flat boxes for Rotary) in the church corridor in the next few weeks, as the final date for the Rotary boxes
is 17th October.
> July/August 2025 News
Bitterne United Reformed Church is intending to have a service to include the blessing of our tree in the precinct on Sunday 20 July 2025 The service will also include the Sacrament of Holy Communion, led by the Reverend Dr Sarah Hall
Summer Praise service – Sunday 27th July, 10:30am
Four Charities Tea – Saturday 2nd August, 3pm
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
We pray for all our friends and family who are struggling with health issues at the moment. We give thanks to God for the continuing care they are receiving be it in hospital, at home, or in a care facility and pray they feel comfort from God’s love knowing they are not alone. We thank loved ones for their support, which can be exhausting at times, and pray they will gain the strength needed from God to keep going.
We think of all those breathing a sigh of relief from finishing exams, partying and preparing for summer balls. The end of term is upon us, with Colleges, Universities and Schools giving time for a well-earned break from studies. May you have time for relaxation and reflection during your holiday period and benefit from the grace of God’s guidance.
Lord, may your peace surround us, your love enrich us and your presence encourage us, this day and forevermore. Amen.
World refugee day 20 June 2025
Theme for 2025: Health for All: Solidarity with refugees.
There are more than 123 million refugees, including 47 million children, in the world today. 1 in every 67 people worldwide is displaced. Many are waiting a decade for legal recognition and do not receive the help, food, shelter, and healthcare they desperately need. More than 70% are hosted in low- and middle-income countries who do not have the means to deal with the influx. Shrinking humanitarian budgets mean that there are less resources allocated to refugees. The UN requested $44 billion in aid in December but has only received $5.6 billion. The USA was historically the biggest donor, but the aid budget has been seriously slashed by Donald Trump, and other countries have followed suit. This comes at a time when humanitarian needs in conflict zones soar, including Sudan, Gaza, Democratic Republic of Congo, and Myanmar. According to Al Jazeera news, the refugees of Sudan only have one doctor for 80,000 people! The UN have no choice but to direct what resources they have to the neediest cases, and review planning to ensure maximum impact with such limited funds.
On the Shelterbox website, you can find 7 facts for World Refugee Day:- 1. Most people forced from their homes do not become refugees, as a refugee is someone who flees to another country. They often stay in their country and end up in camps for internally displaced people (IDPs). Shelterbox works in many of these.
2.Most actual refugees (70%) go to neighbouring countries.
- Low- or middle-income countries host the most refugees.
- Around 40% of refugees are children.
- Turkiye and Iran host the most refugees -3.4 million, due to the war in Syria. The EU country hosting the most refugees is Germany
- Some refugees are displaced for many years. Due to ongoing wars, they are in a situation of “protracted displacement” ie being refugees for more than 5 years.
- The climate crisis is becoming a cause for displacement. With so many more ferocious storms, long droughts, and terrible floods, many are forced to leave their homes. Please pray for refugees. MB
Bitterne United Reformed Church Invites you, all our friends in the Southern Fellowship Group and more…. to a Summer Praise Evening on Sunday 27 July 2025 6.30 pm – Tea and Cake 7.00 pm – Service Come and join us for a time of Praise and Worship.
Girls Brigade Camp
This will be held from 3rd to 8th August at Littlehampton. They would appreciate your prayers for the girls to get closer to God and for everything to run smoothly, and are happy for any donations towards the camp, especially for ice cream. Please contact Margaret or Rosie if you wish to donate. Thank you.
A BIG THANK YOU
to everyone who came to the VE DAY PARTY. It was a lovely afternoon with the choir singing Penny’s lovely, moving VE Day song she had written, Dave leading the singing and Ian doing a monologue. A tea was enjoyed by all. Thanks to Sue and Jill. Although it was not a profit making event £82 was raised which will be going to Help for Heroes.
It is with great pleasure we welcome Sue and Penny as new Elders into Bitterne United Reformed Church.
May the Lord continue to bless our existing Elders and both of you as you step into this role. May He grant you wisdom strength and discernment as you carry out your duties. You have the unwavering support and prayers of our entire congregation and we are truly grateful for your service.
With heartfelt gratitude and blessings Anne
August – A Christian Aid prayer
Good God of creation,
we sing praise to you.
But even as we raise our voices
we know we have faltered and failed.
Walking on paths that turned our hearts inward,
Too often our leaves have withered
our branches are barren.
We have failed to be pruned
and the axe is now poised.
Poised to cut down
the excesses that crucify all creation,
the systems that impoverish all people,
the privileges that diminish our faith.
But even now it is not too late.
For in the face of judgement
comes the offer of grace
and the hope that deadwood can spring to life.
Where we have failed to bear good fruit
and share your abundance for the earth
GOD HAVE MERCY
When our actions and intentions
have been as chaff for the winds of heaven
GOD HAVE MERCY
Forgive us.
Restore us,
Inspire us now
to delight in your purposes,
to embrace your possibilities,
to inhabit your promises,
to flourish as fruit for the world you so love
and bring healing for all the nations.
AMEN
(Taken from Sharing the Vision – June Edition)
> June 2025 News
Notices Several of our church members were recently presented with certificates to mark 60 years of membership here at Bitterne. We thank them for their loyal service to our church.
Christian Aid Week Thank you to all who supported by giving during the recent Christian Aid week. The amount raised (including Gift Aid) was as follows. Donations £260.69 Quiz night £616.35, totalling £877.04.
Thanks to all who supported the Quiz Night and to Hazel Roberts from Peartree Green for putting the quiz together. 60 people had an enjoyable evening which included a delicious Plowman’s supper provided by Jill.
June Eco Prayer
Creator God, source of all life
You spoke, and the universe burst into being
Abundant, full of wonder and life,
Everything expressing praise to You, God of wonders!
We add our voices to the praises of the created world.
We pray this month that in our journey alongside you
We may serve you by our prayers for our world, and the challenges we face in the warming climate.
Inspire us by your Holy Spirit To act faithfully to safeguard Creation in every way we are able,
Not thinking of ourselves
But loving our neighbours in all places
So that in our Synod, as in our local churches, and the whole company of your Church
Your Righteousness, Justice and Peace may flow In love to all Amen (from Wessex Synod)
THINKING OF OUR CHURCH FAMILY
Dear Friends
We continue to pray for all those who have been ill, undergoing tests, or awaiting test results. It can be a stressful time and we pray God gives them the strength to remain calm and patient during these times.
We think of those hurriedly revising and getting themselves ready for the exam season, for those applying for jobs and attending job interviews, may God give them the gifts of recall and confidence and guide them through these important life events.
In the last few weeks some of our members have experienced the loss of close family members. Let us uphold them and their families in our thoughts and prayers that they may know the comfort of God’s love and the love of their Church family.
As we put our trust in God so he gives us the strength and resilience to face our challenges and joys along life’s pathway. God is with us all, every step of the way. Amen.
In Christian love, Anne.
BOARD GAMES EVENING
Saturday 28 June 2025 at 7.00pm at Bitterne URC
This is a social event with no fundraising
Do come along and join us, it’s great fun.
AWAY DAY – 26 April 2025
With the help of Chris, who drove the minibus, and Ian who also provided transport, we arrived in good time at Petersfield URC. We were blessed with a lovely day, weather-wise, which meant we could also enjoy their beautiful garden. We started with some hymns under the leadership of the Reverend Mary Thomas and a game devised by Ian, we learnt about ourselves, our personal faith journeys and each other. We discussed some thought-provoking issues and shared experiences with each other. We were spoilt with a wonderful meal from Jill and left with a great feeling of fellowship and friendship and the desire to have another Away Day!
> May 2025 News
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
Dear Friends Let us remember our friends and families who we carry in our hearts because of illness, or other concerns. May God help them to ease the pain and loads they bear, that they will find relief and comfort in knowing Him. As the exam season fast approaches we think of all those carrying out last minute revision, praying their efforts will come to fruition. May God give you the energy and calm understanding needed when facing stressful situations. Amen
Southern Fellowship
Our inaugural service for our new church cluster took place on 11 May 2024, so we can now reflect on a year together. I would like to take this opportunity to thank Rev Mike and Rev Sarah for their valued input and support in the running of our churches. I personally thank Rev Sarah for attending our events at church and Rev Mike for the interesting and fulfilling Bible studies on zoom and for both being on the end of an email to offer instant support and advice. I’d also like to thank Chris from Isaac Watts URC in his work as a lay preacher, Boys Brigade Chaplain, minibus driver and organiser. Maria.
Christian Aid Week – Celebrating 80 years of service providing humanitarian relief and long-term development support for poor communities worldwide.
Host: Hazel Roberts
Date: Friday 16 May 2025
Time: 7.30 pm
Place: Bitterne United Reformed Church
Come along to our fund-raising Quiz evening and enjoy a fun evening with refreshments, which includes a ploughman’s supper! Admission is free but donations are welcome.
Christian Aid Week 11-17th May 2025
Christian Aid works to support sustainable development, eradicate poverty, support civil society and provide disaster relief in vulnerable communities in 24 countries around the world.
Poor governance, debilitating trade deals, global banking are huge issues in many countries. Then there is an over-dependency on natural resources. Now the impact of climate disruption is making things far worse.
But you can help local communities for climate disruption, support farmers to improve their harvest, and women participate fully in vital decisions. Christian Aid partners are committed to ensuring poor and marginalised people enjoy thriving and dignified lives.
Did you know…
CA’s work in Africa includes strengthening peace-building in South Sudan, promoting resilient farming in Kenya and challenging inequality in Sierra Leone. They are also working with women to increase their access to green and sustainable energy in Burkina Faso, Ethiopia and Malawi.
- In Asia, their programmes include promoting women’s rights in Afghanistan, justice and peacebuilding in Myanmar and ensuring people can access the services they need in Bangladesh.
- In Latin Americaand the Caribbean, they help promote gender justice in the Dominican Republic, El Salvador and Guatemala, peace-building in Colombia, and support marginalised communities to adapt their livelihoods to climate change in Honduras, Nicaragua and Haiti.
- Their work in the Middle Eastincludes defending people’s rights in Israel and the occupied Palestinian territory, protecting women at risk of violence in Iraq and providing humanitarian assistance to refugees in Lebanon.
Christian Aid Notices
An email received……
As we approach Easter, a season of reflection and renewal, we are grateful for your generous response to the Myanmar appeal. Your support has brought hope and relief to those in crisis. Reflecting on Jesus’ sacrifice and the power of His Resurrection, we are reminded of the eternal hope He gives us. Your contributions have carried this hope, sustaining lives during these challenging times. Thank you!
Monday 12 May 2025 as we launch Christian Aid Week 2025. Join us on Monday, 12 May 2025, as we launch Christian Aid Week 2025. Our Chief Executive, Patrick Watt, will lead us in prayer, and we’ll be joined by staff and volunteers from our global family. Sign up to be part of this special event and to receive the link. We look forward to praying together with you!
Christian Aid Week 2025 prayer launch – Christian Aid
Thursday, 12 June 2025- 80th Anniversary Special Service at Westminster Abbey Thank you to everyone who has signed up! If you haven’t had a chance yet, please sign up here. Join us at Westminster Abbey to reflect on our journey, express gratitude, and renew our commitment to justice and hope. We look forward to warmly welcoming you on 12 June, 2025. 80th Anniversary Special Service at Westminster Abbey – Christian Aid
Restore campaign – Faith in Action drop in online session Faith into Action takes place every month for 1 hour online. Register here Faith into Action Session – Christian Aid Upcoming dates Monday 12 May and Monday 9 June, 2025.
Christian Aid Week 2025 online drop in Creating this space for you to ask any questions and share anything about Christian Aid Week.
https://christian-aid-org.zoom.us/j/83128472620?pwd=jcCOE2rkrsbYwxoogoqkygpUM751Rl.1
Meeting ID: 831 2847 2620 Passcode: 311856
Anitha Santharaj Christian Aid Engagement and fundraising Officer
Commitment for Life
This is the URC’s global justice programme, aiming to help the most vulnerable people in the world. Poor governance, debilitating trade deals, global banking are huge issues. Then there is an over-dependency on natural resources. Now the impact of climate disruption is making things far worse. But you can help local communities for climate disruption, support farmers to improve their harvest, and women participate fully in vital decisions. Christian Aid partners are committed to ensuring poor and marginalised people enjoy thriving and dignified lives.
Spring Update – Bangladesh ……..Empowering women
Climate change continues to disrupt lives, disproportionately affecting the most vulnerable communities worldwide. The rural village of Kurigram in Bangladesh is no exception. Once a thriving farming community, it has now become one of the most disaster-prone regions in the country.
Khaleda Begum has lived in Kurigram for most of her life as a farmer. She shares her home with her husband and four daughters but has struggled to meet their basic needs. Like many others in her community, life was difficult, and she was married at a young age. When asked to describe her experiences, she shared, “I cannot describe my suffering.” Due to climate change, the small livelihood her family once had through farming has been destroyed, leaving her desperately searching for ways to provide for her family.
Our Christian Aid partner, Aid Comilla, stepped in to support Khaleda by enrolling her in an e-commerce training programme—an opportunity for her to learn new skills and gain business training to build a sustainable income through her craft. Aid Comilla is committed to empowering women, training them to become ‘change agents’ who establish their own businesses and inspire others to do the same. Through their programmes, they provide women like Khaleda with training, equipment, and financial support for business start-ups. Most importantly, they teach digital literacy equipping women with smartphones and guiding them on how to set up online shops to market their products.
Khaleda successfully completed the training and now sells handmade beaded bags both within her community and online. She has learned how to maximise sales as an online entrepreneur, expanding her reach beyond her local area which she never imagined possible. Since then, she has been encouraging and mentoring other women to join the programme and develop their own businesses.
To date, Aid Comilla has trained over 580 women through this initiative, with the goal of reaching 5,000 women in the coming years.
Christian Aid celebrates this incredible progress and remains committed to supporting many more women, giving them the opportunity to transform their lives—just as Khaleda has. She now has a new source of income and a sense of pride being able to provide for her family’s basic needs. She is committed to growing her business and become a positive role model for her daughters.
Prayer points
- Pray for staff at Aid Comilla for strength and wisdom as they continue to empower women to become change agents.
- Pray for the women who have started their business that God will bless the work of their hands and make their businesses flourish.
- Pray for God to continue protect the community in the wake climate related disasters.
Thank you for your continued support in equipping women to become agents of change.
Walk the Wight for Mountbatten Hospice, Newport.
Louise and I are doing Walk the Wight for the first time on Sunday 11th May. It will be a walk from Bembridge to Alum Bay; a total of 26.5 miles.
It will be the 35th Walk the Wight and it’s to raise money for Mountbatten Hospice on the Isle of Wight and we were inspired by Ian who has completed many of the walks.
We thought it would be a physical challenge, a fun day out with amazing views of the Isle of Wight and it is for a really worthy charity. Hopefully we won’t ache too much afterwards! Emma. Please see Emma at church to sponsor her.
Did you know….
- Mountbatten is the Isle of Wight’s only hospice
- Within the Island community, their care at home team supports over 2,000 people in any one day
- Increasing numbers of Islanders need Mountbatten — with demand for community care expected to rise by 40%in the next few years
- Mountbatten’s services include bereavement counselling, rehabilitation, support, advice, equipment provisionand symptom management
- As well as caring for patients in their own homes, they operate a 16-bed inpatient unit in Newport, offering 24-hour specialist palliative care.
Sunday 1st June, 3pm VE day celebrations
Everyone is welcome to join an afternoon tea to celebrate the 80th Anniversary of VE day.
> April 2025 News
Sun 13th April Palm Sunday service 10:30am
Thu 17th April Maundy Thursday Communion service 7:30pm
Fri 18th April Good Friday Churches Together in Bitterne Walk of Witness, 11am. Tenebrae service, 7:30pm.
Sun 20th April Easter Sunday Communion service, 8am followed by Easter Breakfast. Family service 10:30am
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
Dear Friends
We are grateful to see some of our family gradually returning to Church after absence whilst recovering from operations and ill health. We mourn for those we have lost as long-standing friends and members and include our friends at Avenue St Andrews URC in these prayers. We think of those still undergoing treatment who have a journey ahead towards recovery. We are also thankful for the God given talents that enable some of our congregation to lead worship. Dear Lord, thank you for walking beside us, for holding our hands, for guiding us and blessing us with your presence in all that we do no matter what journey we are making. Amen.
Debt Justice – their Campaign We’re facing the worst global debt crisis in 30 years. People in countries like Ghana and Sri Lanka are being robbed of an education and healthcare, their governments unable to deal with the climate emergency because their countries are trapped in unjust debt. In response, campaigners mounted an incredible campaign that won $130 billion in debt cancellation. This is the first Jubilee Year since that epic campaign – and it’s bringing campaigners and activists together all around the world. While a record amount of unjust debt was written off, the underlying causes of the crisis were never addressed, and wealthy countries and financial giants have continued to use debt to drain resources out of lower-income countries. In recent years the pandemic, spiralling interest rates and soaring energy prices have pushed 54 countries to crisis point. Now, debt repayments are at their highest levels in thirty years. For example, Ghana has paid over $7 billion in interest alone on debts to western lenders since 2010. Nine in ten lower-income country debts owed to private lenders are overseen by UK law, which means a new law here could help get debt cancelled in countries in crisis. This year, Debt Justice are joining forces with campaigners around the world to demand new debt justice laws, debt cancellation for countries in crisis, and a debt framework at the United Nations to stop future debt crises. Please sign the petition at www.debtjustice.org.uk/choosehope
BITTERNE AWAY DAY – 26 APRIL 2025
Don’t miss out on our Away Day in Petersfield; a day full of fun, fellowship, food and worship. We have 18 people signed up already so come and join us! The more the merrier! Just pop your name on the list in the corridor.
40 Ideas for Keeping Lent Holy by Nadia Bolz-Weber Part 2
How did you get on with part 1 in the March Outlook? Please let me know if you joined in with this. I fell by the wayside on day 15, but am determined to continue, and catch up with some that I have missed. Here are the rest of the ideas:-
(Sunday) 30th March – no action
Day 23: Introduce yourself to a neighbour
Day 24: Read Psalm 121
Day 25: Bake a cake
Day 26: No shopping day
Day 27: Hug a tree
Day 28: Light a candle
(Sunday)
Day 29: Write a thank you note to your favourite teacher
Day 30: Invest in canvas shopping bags – and use them!
Day 31: Buy a fairly traded product you’ve not tried before
Day 32: Donate art supplies to your local primary school
Day 33: Read John 8:1-11
Day 34: Worship at a friend’s mosque, synagogue or church and look for the beauty
(Sunday)
Day 35: Confess a secret
Day 36: No sugar day – where else is there sweetness in your life?
Day 37: Give £5 to a local social enterprise
Day 38: Educate yourself about a saint www.catholic.org/saints
Day 39: Pray for peace
Day 40: Pray for your enemies (you probably have new ones by now) then decide which of these exercises you’ll keep for good.
Easter Breakfast will be after the early morning communion on Easter day, approximately 8.45am, if anyone wants to come just for breakfast and can’t get up so early, but it is lovely to welcome in Easter Day with the communion.
Please put your name on the list in the corridor. There will be a choice of full English (including vegetarian) or continental.
There is no charge but donations to cover the cost will be welcome.
Boys Brigade news and events
A big thank you to everyone who attended our recent Board Games Evening – as we had a good turnout and it was an enjoyable time, we are holding another one on Saturday 17th May at 7pm to 9pm. Thank you also for your kind donations- £40 was raised for Mercy Collective, Uganda.
Our next event is a real live outdoor Monopoly game – which has mainly been organised by Thomas Moore and DJ Jenkins, as part of their Kings Badge.
This will take place in Southampton City centre, and the aim of the game is to find as many of the listed landmarks on our Monopoly board and take a photo of yourself next to the landmark. You have a set time to find the landmarks and then all meet up back at Guildhall Square to see who has won. We have opened this up to other Boys Brigade Companies across Hampshire and also to members of the public. So, you are welcome to join us on Saturday 12th April, meeting at Guildhall Square at 9.30am for a 10am start. Please let us know in advance if you are coming, to help with our planning.
IN OTHER NEWS: Charity QUIZ NIGHT
Anthony has organised a Ugandan themed quiz night to raise funds for his charity work with Mercy Collective, Uganda. This will be at church on Friday 11th April 7 to 9pm. Please come along and bring your friends and family.
> March 2025 News
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
As our magazine goes to print so the Reverend Mike Perrott and Marie move out of the manse in Romsey (in need of major repairs) and into a new address in Chandler’s Ford. We wish them well in their new abode and in settling into their neighbourhood.
We think of all those who are facing challenges, be it moving home, starting new jobs, or facing health issues. We ask for God’s blessing on all those who need support, strength, courage and healing during the coming weeks and that they feel his presence beside them.
In Christian love, Anne
Don’t forget!
Car parking charges begin in ALL car parks in Bitterne on April 1st until 8pm every day.
Think! “Speak the truth in a spirit of love… Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you” Ephesians 4: 15 & 29
So – my words should pass the THINK TEST …. Is what I’m about to say:-
True (or is it false)
Helpful (or is it harmful)
Inspiring (or is it undermining)
Necessary (or better unsaid)
Kind (or is it rude or blunt)
From Meg Cook’s service of 23/02/25, with kind permission.
Ukraine
24th February 2025 marked the 3rd year of the Russian-Ukraine war, the largest war in Europe since 1945.
According to the United Nations, around 12,500 civilians, including 650 children, have died. Around 46,000 Ukrainian soldiers have also been killed in action.
ShelterBox According to the charity ShelterBox, 13 million people have been displaced. ShelterBox are working to help people who have been displaced, and those who have remained in their homes, which are often left without power and water. They supply mattresses, thermal blankets, shelter kits and solar lights. They also supply tarpaulins to block cold air from bombed out windows as temperatures in Ukraine can reach as low as -15 in winter. Also providing emergency repair kits to fix broken roofs and windows and make houses safe to stay in. ShelterBox have helped more than 130,000 people affected by the war in Ukraine, supporting people displaced within Ukraine, as well as refugees who crossed the border into Moldova.
Christian Aid are also working in Ukraine, partnering with NGO’s and local organisations. They have supported 247 community groups across 22 regions, reaching an estimated 170,000 people. The projects included rebuilding community buildings, repairing shelters and cleaning wells.199 micro grants reached 150,000 people and were used to improve living conditions, provide healthcare and counselling and build underground shelters. Partner Alliance for Public Health provided mobile clinics in the de-occupied regions of Kharkiv, Kherson and Zaporizhia which reached 14,500 people with doctor consultations, medical diagnostics, treatment and medication. CA continues to work with a network of organisations, local churches and people of all faiths and none. More information can be found on their website. Let us hope and pray that peace comes soon. Maria.
Board Game Evening
Come and join Anthony and some members of the Boys Brigade for a board games evening on Saturday 22nd March at 7pm at church. We have a very good selection of games!
Free entry but donations to Mercy Collective are welcome.
-Also we are beginning an appeal to collect stationary, good quality clothes for both hot and cold weather especially children’s clothes, as well as solar-panel power-banks.
Ideas for Keeping Lent Holy Part 1 by Nadia Bolz-Weber and adapted for the UK by Rev Sarah Hall
From Wednesday March 5th
Day 1: Pray for your enemies
Day 2: Walk, carpool, bike or bus it.
Day 3: Don’t turn on the radio
Day 4: Give £5 to a charity of your choosing
Day 5: Take 5 minutes of silence at noon
Day 6: Look out the window until you find something of beauty you had not noticed before.
Day 7: Give 3 items of clothing, books, DVDs or CDs to charity
Day 8: No gossip day
Day 9: Do someone else’s chore
Day 10: Buy a few fast food gift cards to give to homeless people you encounter
Day 11: Call an old friend
Day 12: Pray the paper (pray for people and situations in today’s news)
Day 13: Read Psalm 139
Day 14: Pay a few sincere compliments
Day 15: Bring your own mug to a coffee shop
Day 16: Educate yourself about human trafficking https://urc.org.uk/modern-slavery/
Day 17: Forgive someone
Day 18: Don’t use the Internet except for necessities
Day 19: Change one light in your house to LED
Day 20: Try out YouTube morning prayer with the Iona Community
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwDTTUFoQ5YQRfA5bUi8ObQ
Day 21: Ask for help
Day 22: Tell someone what you are grateful for
Day 23: Introduce yourself to a neighbour
Day 24: Read Psalm 121
Day 25: Bake a cake
Day 26: No shopping day
Day 27: Hug a tree
Day 28: Light a candle
To be continued next issue….
> February 2025 News
NEWS OF CHURCH FAMILY
Dear Friends
At the start of 2025 we have many friends who are poorly, recovering
from falls, and/or surgery, awaiting test outcomes and appointments.
We uphold them all in our prayers and ask for God’s help with healing
that He may grant them strength and patience with their recovery and
waiting for results. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
LOOKING AHEAD – 40TH ANNIVERSARY
I know 2025 has just started, but looking ahead, 2026 is when we celebrate 40 years of Bitterne URC occupying its current site, on top of Iceland. Please make any of the Elders aware if you wish to suggest ideas for celebrating during the course of 2026. There’s nothing like planning ahead so we can organise exactly what you would like.
FIRST AID
Dear Friends, A number of people have let me know they would be interested in attending a First Aid course. It would be great to have a few more people in the Church who are aware what to do in the event
of a medical emergency. Please can you let me, or your Elder know if this is something you would like to find out about. In the meantime, I will contact Synod to see if it’s possible for us to organise a course
at the Church to save on travelling. Please do come forward, as we might need 14 or more people before we can make it feasible for a trainer to attend.
Thank You
Christingles – Many thanks, to all the amazing Christingle makers, what a team! Making the Christingles is a tradition that is very special and
lends itself to some beautiful fellowship. Also, thanks to Jill, who led the service.
Just a quick update from Mercy Collective
The JustGiving page received a generous donation of £1000, which has been since remitted to and shared amongst the 5 Ugandan Members of Mercy Collective. They all have ambitious plans for this
money.
Julius will begin a poultry-rearing project, to allow for income generation and food security. Waiswa is covering the cost of rent for his Ministry, and
schooling costs for the children in his care. William is looking to begin a mechanics workshop which will be part financed by the share of this donation, as well as buy some hens and goats, and cover some schooling costs. Reagan will begin growing maize and beans, as well as covering scholastic material needs for a whole school term. Moses and his colleague Deborah at Kwikirizaakwe Child Hope Foundation have decided to buy enough scholastic materials for a whole school year, and begin poultry rearing with the remaining balance.
So far, a lot of this work has already been started, and I am frequently updated. Let’s pray for the continued success of this initiative!
In other news, a quiz night is being planned for more fundraising.
Thank you, Anthony.
Southampton City Council New Parking Charges
From 1st April, 2025, Southampton City Council will be charging residents to park in all of their car parks, which includes those near our church for a 6 month trial period. Despite receiving over 2000 objections, the only concession they have made is to charge from 8am to 8pm, instead of until midnight. There will no longer be any free parking. This will impact our church family and Brigades parents dropping off and collecting their children. I wrote to Councillor Amanda Barnes-Andrews, who said these parents are unlikely to incur a fine, as there is a 10 minute delay before a fine will be implemented, so they will have to be quick!
The council are doing this to raise money to repay a loan from central government and to maintain car parks, repair potholes, etc. They are also keen to reduce car use and encourage the use of public transport. SCC are offering a parking season ticket that is available for all users. A six month season ticket will cost £340, and an annual season ticket will cost £650. As mentioned, this parking scheme will be reviewed after 6 months to see if any changes are necessary. Looks like we will be walking to Bitterne more often!
Maria
Milk Bottle tops
Thank you to everyone who continues to collect milk bottle tops, which I pass on to Sue from the Church of the Immaculate Conception in Portswood and which raise funds for various charities. Please also collect any other plastic bottle tops which won’t be recycled with their bottles, as Isaac Watts church can send them for recycling. It would be very helpful if you can separate these tops.
Thanks, Maria
Racial Justice Sunday 9th February 2025
This year is an important one for racial justice as it marks the 30th anniversary of RJS. RJS was established by the Methodist Church in 1995 following the tragic racist murder of Black teenager Stephen Lawrence in southeast London in April 1993. The Lawrence family attended a local Methodist Church in that part of London, and the Methodist Church agreed to support the family’s justice campaign to find young Stephen’s killers. A few years later, the Churches’ Commission for Racial Justice (CCRJ), a Churches Together in Britain and Ireland programme, agreed to mainstream the special Sunday so that all the churches could engage with it. Their theme this year has the title ‘Coat of Many Colours’, reflecting the
increasing diversity that exists in the churches in Britain and Ireland. Both the Old Testament, or the Hebrew Bible, and the New Testament have references to diversity, in this world and the Kingdom to come. We can reflect on verses that speak of a ‘house of prayer for all nations’ (Isaiah 56:7), the events of Pentecost (Acts 2) or the ‘multitude … from every nation’ (Revelation 7:9-17), which all include words meaning ‘every tribe and nation’, to see that ethnic diversity is part of God’s divine plan. There is little doubt that British churches, especially in the larger cities, are a microcosm of the world in a congregation, which is a blessing that must be celebrated.
A prayer for Racial Justice Sunday
Jesus, as You walked this good earth, Your feet upon land that is blessed and holy, crossing borders and boundaries to minister to those in need, You encountered many people from different cultures and different nations.
You listened to them, You spoke with them, You touched them and healed them, You blessed them and forgave them. May we follow Your example, loving and tending all You have made, healing and sowing peace wherever You call. Send us out in the power of Your Spirit.
Amen
Scratch CHRISTMAS COMPLETE 2024
THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT
I received a lovely thank you email from Annette at Scratch.
I will print it and put it on our noticeboard as I don’t have space here to
include their photos.
“Just a quick note to say thank you for your support in donating toys, gifts or finance or for organising a collection on our behalf. Every item received has gone to help a local family who might otherwise not have received presents on Christmas morning. Thank you also to those who helped with the delivery process. 2563 children and young people received gifts. We have already had some feedback from the recipients of the parcels as shown below: –
My family would like to thank you for the Christmas gifts. It was indeed a blessing to us, especially our daughter M. Many thanks for the delivery to St Mark’s School for some of our families. The gifts are wonderful and will make such a difference! Thank you so much for my gifts you have actually saved my
Christmas and taken away so much stress. I would like to send my thanks to you all for all the help your charity has given me and my family. We had a Christmas delivery on Saturday this has saved Christmas for us in so many ways. The boxes were dropped off by two very kind and festive people. Merry Christmas and best wishes L and family x Wishing you a Very Happy Christmas and a Peaceful New Year”.
Annette & the Christmas Complete Team.
> Dec 2024/Jan 2025 News
Thank you’s
A letter received from Wessex Rotary Shoebox Scheme “Thank you so much for your generous support of the Wessex Shoebox scheme this year.
It has been another successful year with 964 boxes collected from Magna Rotary supporters. These have all been checked, packed and delivered to our district depot this last weekend where 20,445 boxes were collected and sorted ready to be transported.
This year we are anticipating sending approximately 6,300 to Ukraine via Poland, 4,000 each to Moldova and Romania and 6,100 to Montenegro. Subject to customs these should easily arrive for Christmas where our fellow Rotary clubs will organise their distribution. Many of your boxes will be going to Ukrainian children who are refugees, as well as to those who are in need in the countries of destination. I am sure the children will be delighted to receive them.
A huge thank you to everyone for your generosity in donating shoeboxes and contents to ensure those less fortunate have a little joy at Christmas”. From Chris Lait and James Lapage
Poppy Appeal. A very big Thank you to all who supported our Poppy Appeal this year. We raised £41 – 85p. This is nearly double the amount raised in previous years, well done. Dave.
Mercy Collective, Uganda A big thank you to everyone who attended my talk about my Ugandan initiative, donated money, raffle prizes, and bought raffle tickets. We raised £103 on the night, which was later increased to £110. Also a big thank you to Tim, Helen and Nicky for their technical help, and Janet for making the teas. An improved recording of the talk will be available shortly. The beneficiaries of the money are very grateful and send their heartfelt thanks and best wishes. Anthony.
CHRISTMAS SERVICES ACROSS THE SOUTHERN FELLOWSHIP
ABBEY and BRAISHFIELD
1 December 10.30 am Toy Service
1 December 6.30 pm Advent Carol Service
8 December 2.30 pm Romsey Ladies Choir with Sunnenday Singers Christmas Concert
10 December12.30 pm Rum’s Eg Christmas Concert
21 December 6.30 pm Candlelight Service
24 December 11.30 pm Midnight Communion
25 December 10.30 am Christmas Day service
AVENUE ST ANDREW’S
30 November: (Mini Christmas Fair as part of Coffee & Cake) (10:30 am – 12 noon)
14 December: Coffee & Cake (10:30 am – 12 noon)
22 December: Carol service @ ASA 4:30 pm
24 December: Zoom Christmas Eve service 11:30 pm
25 December: Group Christmas Day service @ ASA 10 am
29 Dec: Group service @ IW for Favourite Carols 10:30 am
BITTERNE
1 December 10. 30 am Gabby North, The Leprosy Mission
8 December 10.30 am Mosaic Service
15 December 10.30 am Nativity Service
22 December 10.30 am Carol Service
24 December 4.00 pm Christingle Service
24 December 11.30 pm Midnight Communion
25 December 10.00 am Christmas Day service
BITTERNE PARK
December 1st 10.30 am Toy Service and Nativity
8th 10.30 am Carols and Readings
24th 4.00 pm Communion, with refreshments and mince pies from 3.15 pm
25th 10.00 am Christmas Morning
29th 10.30 am Carols & Coffee
January 4th 6.00 pm Supper and Games
ISAAC WATTS
1st December Toy and Gift Service 10.30am to 11.30am.
7th and 14th December Christmas Tree Festival 10.30 am to 12.
15th December Lessons and Carols by candlelight 6.30pm
24th December Carols Around the Christmas Tree 4.30 pm
29th December Favourite Carols at 10.30am
COMMUNION – A REMINDER!
Please note that as from January 2025 we will be celebrating the Sacrament of Holy Communion on the third Sunday of every month. Our first communion of the New Year will be held on Sunday 19 January 2025.
CHURCH FAMILY NEWS
We currently have many friends and family that need our prayers. Those going for tests, waiting for results, appointments, life changing diagnoses and on-going challenges in recovery. Let us give thanks to our Lord and Saviour for all our family and friends asking for His blessing upon each and every one of them. We ask that His healing hands be placed upon them so they may feel stronger and better in time, knowing they have His love and compassion and we are here for them. Amen.
THE WEEK OF PRAYER FOR CHRISTIAN UNITY
18 January to 25 January 2025
During this week, Christians are reminded of Jesus’s prayer for his disciples and everyone’s well-being. Christians remember Jesus’s devotion and come together to pray for their unity. The theme for the 2025 Week of Prayer for Christian Unity is “You shall love the Lord your God… and your neighbour as yourself” (Luke 10:27).
Our Congregation has been invited to a Bring and Share lunch at Holy Saviour on Sunday 19th January from 12.30 ish onwards when it is hoped our friends from Christ the King and St Colman Church will also be able to join everyone. At 1.00 pm, there will be a time of sharing and prayer for unity in Bitterne, with a representative from each church sharing what they are thankful for in the life of their church and where God seems to be moving. 1.15 pm, pudding and refreshments. It will be lovely if some of us can join our neighbours for this celebration.
The United Nations “International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women” – 25/11/24
On this day, Al Jazeera ran a news article, which inspired me to mention it here. The stats are horrifying – recent data indicates that approximately 51,100 women worldwide were killed by their intimate partners or other family members in 2023. This is equivalent to about 140 women and girls killed every day by someone in their family. This equates to 1 woman being killed every 10 minutes. 1 in 3 women experience domestic violence and 1 in 4 adolescent girls are abused by their partners. Women who are displaced, living in conflict or post-conflict situations, or in poverty are particularly at risk. Women in the public eye, including politicians, judges, women human rights defenders, and journalists, and those who defy gender norms and stereotypes, are often disproportionally targeted through threats or acts of violence. This can include digital abuse, harassment, and misinformation designed to silence, intimidate, or harm them. Failing to prevent VAWG (violence against women and girls) leads to fatal outcomes. Femicide represents the horrific end point for many women and girls who have suffered years of violence and abuse, and it is happening in every country. In 2023, Africa recorded the highest rates of intimate partner and family-related femicide, followed by the Americas, and then by Oceania. In Europe and the Americas, most women killed in the domestic sphere (64 per cent and 58 per cent, respectively) were victims of intimate partners, while elsewhere, family members were the primary perpetrators. “Violence against women and girls is not inevitable—it is preventable. We need robust legislation, improved data collection, greater government accountability, a zero-tolerance culture, and increased funding for women’s rights organizations and institutional bodies. As we approach the 30th anniversary of the Beijing Declaration and Platform for Action in 2025, it is time for world leaders to UNITE and act with urgency, recommit and channel the resources needed to end this crisis once and for all”, highlighted UN Women Executive Director, Sima Bahous. The unwomen.org website has more information and a 16 day action plan. #NoExcuse Maria
More Christmas events…..
Our annual Christmas Tree Festival – Saturdays 7th, 14th and 21st December and Wednesdays 11th and 18th 10.00am to 11.30am.
Carol singing in Bitterne Precinct with Churches Together in Bitterne on 14th December at 11am – please come and join us
Christingle Volunteers
A call for volunteers to help make Christingles.
This has always been a lovely activity and if anyone would like to help, you would be most welcome on Christmas Eve at 10am to join in with the fun. With thanks and God’s blessings, Liz
Thank you- Link to Hope
Our donations for the Link to Hope appeal were gratefully received. Although we only sent 3 family and elderly boxes, there was a fabulous multitude of knitted items. A huge thank you to Celia for the teddies, and Mavis and Doreen and her friend Ann, for the beautiful blankets. Our donations were well received and really appreciated.
Scratch Toy Appeal. Thank you for all of your kind donations for disadvantaged children and young people in Southampton. This shows the first batch of gifts taken to the depot. Your donations will definitely bring joy to those who would otherwise receive nothing or very little.
Wishing you all a blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year.